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New Delhi — They fell in love as teenagers, but it took a court ruling for Noora and Adhila to be able to live together as a lesbian couple in the southern Indian state of Kerala.

The Kerala high court ruled in 2022 that there was no law to stop the couple cohabiting, putting an end to years of harassment from their families that culminated in Noora being abducted by her relatives — prompting Adhila to go the court.

“Noora was missing and I was terrified that her family would do something to hurt her seriously,” Adhila, 22, said, asking not to use her or Noora’s full names.

“We put our full faith in the judicial system. We both held onto hope that the court would rule in our favour,” she said.

Now, like millions of LGBTQ+ people across the country of 1.4-billion, they are anxiously watching the outcome of a case being heard by the supreme court that could grant them the right to get married.

Four gay couples have asked the court to recognise same-sex marriages, setting the stage for a legal face-off with Prime Minister Narendra Modi’s government, which has in the past refused to legalise such marriages.

In a filing to the supreme court on Sunday, the government urged the court to reject challenges to the current legal framework, saying the legal recognition of marriage is for heterosexual relationships.

The petitions say that without legal recognition of being married, LGBTQ+ couples are denied rights such as those linked to medical consent, pensions, adoption or even simpler things such as club memberships for couples.

The next hearing is due on Monday, though a final ruling is not expected.

Historic verdict 

A ruling by the court in favour of same-sex marriage would be a landmark for LGBTQ+ rights in India, which has made progress on the issue in recent years.

In 2018, the court decriminalised homosexuality by scrapping a colonial-era ban on gay sex, and in 2022 expanded its definition of family to include same-sex couples for the first time.

Supriyo Chakraborty, 33, who along with his partner Abhay Dang, 35, filed one of the petitions being considered by the supreme court, said it now felt like the time was right for equal marriage rights.

“People are asking questions and would like to know more about the queer community, things weren’t like this when I was a teenager, or in my early 20s,” Chakraborty said.

“Marriage equality now seems like the logical next step.”

India would join 33 UN member states that already recognise gay marriage, according to the ILGA World LGBTQ+ rights group. In Asia, only Taiwan allows it.

Members of India’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community see it as a vital step in their continuing fight for equal rights in the workplace, or when accessing healthcare, housing and other services.

“The question that queer rights activists like me are asking is, why do same-sex couples have to fight harder to ensure legal rights like inheritance, insurance, and adoption?” said Kanav Sahgal, an LGBTQ+ rights activist in New Delhi.

Adhila said she hoped a decision by the country’s top court in favour of same-sex marriage would also help erode widespread homophobia.

“Same-sex marriage is a small, but essential part of this step,” she said, saying homophobic attitudes meant everyday life was still “scary”.

She said the couple regularly face threats and taunts about their relationship, and both have been estranged from their families since the May 2022 high court ruling.

End to discrimination?

But many LGBTQ+ Indians and activists say marriage equality would be unlikely to bring a swift end to discrimination against sexual and gender minorities in the mainly socially conservative country.

“You can’t expect to change the law and expect a change in the behaviours of people who are conditioned to see gender in a binary,” said Raghavi, 24, a trans woman and activist who lives in New Delhi.

“Transgender people like me are fighting for the right to exist. So for me, marriage is at the bottom of my priority list right now,” she said, asking not to use her full name to protect her identity.

There has been outspoken opposition to same-sex marriage since the supreme court started hearing the case earlier in 2023.

On January 6, a group called the United Hindu Front protested outside the court, urging it to throw out the petitions, which it said were “against Indian culture”.

A month before, Sushil Modi, an MP from the prime minister’s ruling Hindu nationalist Bharatiya Janata Party, called marriage a “sacred bond between a man and a woman”.

Besides wider hopes that same-sex marriage would pave the way to greater acceptance, being able to marry would simply mean fulfilling a life goal for many LGBTQ+ Indians.

“I have dreamed about that day ever since I was young,” said Jhisha, 26, a trans woman based in Bengaluru, asking to use only her first name.

“To be out to all of the world, and marry and live as a trans woman almost seems like an unreachable dream,” she said.

Chakraborty and Dang, the petitioning couple, held a marriage ceremony in 2021, images of which went viral on social media.

Now, they want the law to recognise their love.

“Marriage to us is not just about ceremonies but is also about the law recognising us as a couple,” Chakraborty said.

“I want to introduce Abhay to the world as my legal husband, not just a friend.” 

Thomson Reuters Foundation

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