Very few people who experience the privilege of a long life are also able to remain in full control of their financial affairs.

Usually, an adult child has to step in, and it's a tricky business: you have to take control, keep the rest of the family happy, make all the correct decisions and - most important - allow your parents to maintain their dignity and sense of independence...

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